This question was one of 36 that Rabbi and marriage counselor Ari Sytner suggests married couples ask each other in order to achieve greater intimacy and harmony. Although some are specifically directed to Jewish couples they are all applicable to everyone by simply removing the word Jewish and inserting your belief system. Take religion out of the equation and answer in a secular manner.
My first thought is simple: 1. “He was so kind.” 2. “He was so generous.” 3. “He was so funny!”
On second thought maybe: 1. “Who knew he had millions of dollars?” 2. How could someone that handsome be that smart? 3. “He was so funny!”
“In my business you never cut funny.” King Kaiser to Boss Hijack in “My Favorite Year”