You are only concerned about their health but in this day where cancellation and political correctness hold powerful positions in our society, criticism, even constructive criticism must be handled with great care and empathy. You are only trying to help by letting someone know that they may be adversely affecting their life, the world demands you do so with tact and empathy and possibly some good-natured chiding. As someone who has a lifetime of experience in carrying around excess adipose tissue I feel I am qualified to give sound advice on the subtle art of letting someone know they are gaining weight beyond what society deems appropriate which is as follows: Women, size zero or one. Men: Maximum 36 inch waist with proportionate weight, maximum 179 lbs. Try getting the important message across by working one of these helpful lines into a greeting or conversation when your help is needed:
(Disclaimer: Do not try this at home without first consulting an attorney or bodyguard.)
- Geez Louise, no wonder there’s a food shortage in this country!
- You know that big bowl of mashed potatoes is to share, right?
- Welcome! Have a seat…or two.
- Just how fat are you planning to get?
- I’m guessing triplets? What? You’re NOT pregnant?
- Wow, looks like you’re a shoe-in to play Santa at the Christmas Party this year!
- Good to see you looking bigger and better…and bigger than ever!
- Nice to see someone who is not caught up in current fitness and health craze!
- Random thought; I hope you don’t have the seat next to me on the plane.
- Perhaps you should rethink that gym membership or, at least, try using it.
- I thought the elephant was the largest land mammal.
- Look at it this way, there is more of you to love…as lot more.
- Hey, don’t sit on the messenger!
Remember, you are only trying to help!